2 different parenting styles (gentle parenting and traditional - namamalo approach)

Question

Magkaiba kami ng parenting style na gustong iimplement ni hubby sa anak namin. Our baby is still 2months old pero pinag-uusapan na namin ni hubby ngayon kung pano namin sya madi-disiplina in the future.Gusto ko sana na gentle parenting yung approach namin pero si hubby ang gusto ay more traditional at kung aabot sa point na kailangan mamalo, mamamalo daw sya. I have been reading articles in the app about spanking and hindi nga daw ito effective. I have tried convincing him not to do it pero firm talaga decision nya na mamamalo sya kung kinakailangan.May same case po ba samin? Ano po ginawa nyo? Kung sakali, nagwo-work ba na magkaiba yung parenting styles ng parents? Sa mga nag-gentle parenting, pano po ninyo naconvince ang partner nyo na yan ang gawin nyong parenting style?#advicepls #1stimemom #firstbaby

Vô danh · Answer

Kailangan po talaga na pareho kayo style and rules dahil yan po ang susundin ng bata. Continue talking with your husband po. Explain to him yung results ng studies regarding physical discipline. Kami ng husband ko, bf-gf pa lang kami, we already talked about this issue. Both of us are ok with spanking but not to the point na bugbog ang abot ng bata. But I mentioned to him the importance of talking with our child about this action. I also told him na kapag sesermunan ang bata, we do it privately and never outside with people who can see. Now that we have our first child na 6 months old na now, kumukulit na, we mention na baka nga mapalo siya, pero deep inside, feeling ko hindi din namin magagawa haha. Parenting will depend po sa inyo talaga and whatever works with your child. Habang lumalaki siya, merong mga bagay na susubukan mo pero hindi uubra kaya magttry kayo ng ibang paraan. Kahit ano pa man po yan, be firm and always make sure that your kid understands that there are consequences (not punishments) to actions. At dapat po same kayo ni hubby so your kid understands na yan ang totoo and hindi mababali.

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