Hai sayang, I totally understand the scare, unplanned is different from planned, kan. But honestly, 42 is definitely manageable lah, banyak mums do it fine. The main thing people mention is you really kena go for regular check-ups and monitor for gestational diabetes, high blood pressure, and those things, risks are a bit higher at our age, but with good oversight dari doctor, most pregnancies go smoothly. Makan balanced, jaga weight gain, rest properly, and make sure you're seeing your OB/GYN consistently (maybe shorter intervals than typical), friend of mine went through this at 43 and her specialist was super proactive about the appointments, which honestly made her feel so much better. The second time around is also easier emotionally sebab you know what to expect, so that helps too. Best to sit down with your doctor soon and just talk through the specific risks they see for you, every pregnancy is different, and they can give you the real picture. Take a breath, you've done this once already, so your body knows the way!
Razz Naz