Aih, 3 tahun ni memang ada phase macam ni, my daughter jugak dulu keras kepala gila, susah nak ajak mandi haha. Honestly what worked for us is pick your battles lah, sometimes I just let her say no to the mandi, then 20 mins later bila dia main, her clothes jadi kotor sendiri, then she minta mandi without me asking. The lembut-lembut approach is good, tapi sometimes kalau dia tengok kita tak kelantang, dia jadi relax and comply better, yang penting consistency je, kalau suruh mandi, either she goes or she loses something, no negotiation, no drama balas-balasan. Kalau lagi teruk, I jugak cuba redirect je, macam "okay fine, tapi kita kena cuci tangan dulu," jadi dia rasa she has control tapi still comply with what matters. Jangan harap semua hari smooth lah, ada hari dia tetap ngamuk, that's normal 3yr old behaviour!
ya Allah jgn kan mandi, nk suh makan nasi pon taknak.. mntk tlg amik brg pon taknak.. 💆♀️kesabaran jelaa