Your child, your rules. Kung hindi naman sila ang gagastos ng party (at kahit sila pa), no need to be pressured kung ayaw nyong mag-asawa. 1st to 3rd bday ng anak ko, simpleng pakain lang din with immediate family and close friends. Same with you, hindi rin ako mahilig sa parties at handaan. Iniisip ko kapag nag-7yo si lo, gusto ko dalhin sya HK disneyland or somewhere. Basta, kapag big enough na sya to have a preference on how he wants to celebrate his own bday, then doon ako susunod at hindi sa gusto ng ibang tao ☺️