will this be your first kid? also do u have any help at home lets say mother or in law? is your husband hands on and willing to help at any time?
these are all the questions u shld ask before considering a helper.
if there is no help and u are struggling, maybe can consider confinement nanny for short term during yr recovery, or if need be helper for long term. is not easy to find suitable helper but is a gamble that nobody knows too. if you feel very in need of help, then consider getting helper rather than stressed out. I was against having helper too. but now my #2 is coming, I just hired one cus really struggle with housework and cleaning everyday if no help..
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