Honestly, I was also quite hesitant about having a live-in helper before my first was born, but it made a huge difference during confinement and the first few months when I was really struggling with sleep and recovery. The adjustment period is real though - it took us a good two weeks to settle into a routine and find our rhythm. I'd say if you can afford it and have the space, it's worth considering at least for the first few months postpartum, because honestly those early days are tough and having someone to help with housework and cooking while you focus on baby and rest is a game changer. If you're unsure, maybe try for a few months first rather than committing long-term, that's what some of my mum friends did and it worked out well for them.