Hai sayang, I totally understand, 35 weeks and rasa mcm ada kontraksi tu memang boleh buat nervous, especially when it feels like labour pain but nothing else is happening. What you're describing sounds like Braxton Hicks, which is actually quite normal at this stage; they're basically your uterus practising and tightening the muscles to get ready for the real thing. The key thing is to pay attention to the pattern, if it's irregular and goes away when you rest or change position, that's usually just your body preparing itself, which is a good sign actually. My mum group mentioned that keeping track of when the pains come helps a lot, so maybe jot down the timing kalau terus happen, and make sure you rest, drink plenty of water, and try some gentle movements. That said, since this is bothering you quite a bit and it's your first time feeling this even with your third pregnancy, it's really worth mentioning to your doctor or specialist at your next visit just to put your mind at ease, okay? Sending you gentle hugs, you've got this!