Ay, this is such a tricky one, hindi ba? Honestly, I think your spouse and kids come first kasi sila ang immediate family mo na umaasa sa iyo day-to-day, pero that doesn't mean you completely abandon your siblings, balance lang talaga, and communication is key dito. If your sibling needs help, tulungan mo, pero make sure your spouse understands and vice versa, kasi pag hindi aligned ang household mo, mas gagulo lang lahat at magiging stressful para sa lahat.