Invite them or not?

Would you invite relatives who did not attend your wedding to your baby's first birthday? I invited them, yet not even one from their family attended, didn't even send me a msg as to their excuses. I haven't settled things with them since then. I heard parang nagtampo daw sila when they were invited late of my civil wedding. For me it wasn't a big deal because that was suppose to be just a very intimate wedding, only few friends and fam were there, ni hindi nga kami nakabili ng masusuot sa kasal kase I just want it to be very casual and simple. I want to read some insights. Please be kind though. Thanks!

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Honestly, ang hirap ng family dynamics talaga, a few of us moms went through similar situations and it really stings when they ghost like that, especially on your baby's milestone. But I think if they're still being petty about the civil wedding invite timing, they might not come anyway, so maybe save yourself the stress and just invite your closest circle na talagang susuportahan kayo? If you're open to reconciling with them someday, you can always celebrate with them separately, but your baby's first birthday should be about people who actually show up and celebrate with you, hindi yung mag-eexpect na ikaw pa ang mag-effort pa ulit.

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