i need advice mommys

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Im a mother and 2yrs old na baby ko and Im a victim of rape. now this is my fiance hes not even capable of taking care of himself even me he doesnt even taking care of me ano pa kaya yung magiging baby namin. mental abuse is still an abuse ryt? and Im so drain atm almost crying every night & day. he damage my mental health so much and my health as well. he doesnt want me to go outside kahit grocery salon/ papaaraw lang sa labas. Im stuck in the room. and i had my eye checked with the help of my mom its every yr. and now malabo na mata ko. he doesnt even want me to worknow i need and advice in life and some legal advice nadin sana?he wants the baby but he doesnt want to support my pregnancy without hes custody.

Amihan Santos · Answer

Nak, my heart is breaking for you. Kailangan mo ng tulong ngayon, please reach out to a lawyer, social worker, or the National Bureau of Investigation (NBI) Women and Children Protection Division, o kahit sa local DSWD office. What you're describing, isolating you, controlling where you go, the mental abuse, these are forms of abuse, and YES, mental abuse is real abuse. You deserve protection, and your baby deserves a safe mama. I know you're so tired and hurt right now. A few of us moms have been through dark times too, and what helped was talking to professionals who could guide us legally and emotionally, people who understand Filipino family law and can actually help you keep your baby safe. Don't carry this alone, please. Your mom is there, and there are free legal aid services available to you. Kaya mo yan, mama. You and your baby's safety come first, always.

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