If your spouse keeps telling you every time you have a terrible fight "Maghiwalay na nga lang tayo!" Will you have second thoughts of considering what he's saying?

Honestly it would worry me a bit because that's his "solution" to the problem or he's using it as a threat. For me mas ok pang magalit, tatahimik, then mag-asawang maghahanap ng solution pag ready na mag-usap