I was a breadwinner since then kaya nong nag asawa ako its really hard for me especially when it comes to finances . Whats the best thing to do to balance the finances ? How can i explain to my parents that i have other priority already yung tipong di sila masasaktan ?

Your immediate family is now your husband and kids. But it doesn't mean you will totally neglect your parents. You can tell them that now that you are married, you can only give them X amount because there are also other expenses/bills that you need to settle in your household.