Hindi kasundo ang pamilya ng asawa😭

Hi I just want to share my experience dito sa platform kasi sobrang bigat na. Yung mga in laws ko ayaw na ayaw saken and I don't even know why. Wala naman ako ginagawang masama and Lord knows I tried so hard na makisama sa kanila. Yung partner ko may anak sa previous relationship and mas ka close nila yung mom nung anak nung partner ko. To the point na etong partner ko nasisira na relationship sa pamilya nya kasi sa mga family gatherings laging nandun pa din si ex, at mas tinatrato nilang family si ex kesa samen ng partner ko. I could understand sana if I was the reason for their break up pero nakilala ko partner ko hiwalay na sila. And isa pa the reason for their break up was the ex cheated on my current partner. Tanggap ko daughter ng partner ko kaya di ko ma gets bakit hindi ako matanggap ng family nya. We're planning on having a baby of our own but my partner's family made it clear ngayon palang na hindi nila kililalanin magiging anak namin if ever, which really hurts.

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Hay, sister, that's really heavy and I'm so sorry you're going through this, that would break anyone's heart, especially knowing you're doing everything right. A few of us moms have dealt with in-law drama, and honestly, kung ganitong severe ang rejection nila sa magiging baby ninyo, yan na rin sign na kailangan ng real conversation between your partner and his family, hindi lang ikaw ang mag-adjust forever. The fact na mas preferred pa nila yung ex who cheated? That's not about you, sis, that's about them having issues they haven't solved yet, pero you can't carry that load alone. Your partner needs to set boundaries with his family and make it clear na kayo ang priority now, kasi pag lumaki ang baby ninyo, kailangan ninyong united at hindi kayo magkakasakit sa bawat family event. Rooting for you, this takes courage.

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