i started spanking at 2.
aft spanking, i would calm them down and explain to them why i did that.
yes i feel guilty too but i believe we have to discipline our kids when it's times to do so
I'm not for spanking unless it's life and death situations. Otherwise I'll try to distract them. 16 months old a bit young to spank for me
I wouldn't say much. As long as you explain why you spanked her after. That is very important.