Pregnant..again after 14 years

Hi Mummy, first of all, congratulations! ❤️ I’m actually in almost the same situation as you. My first child is 13 now and will be 14 when the baby arrives next year. My husband and I are approaching our late 30s. We really weren’t expecting this to happen, so when we found out, we were both so happy but nervous at the same time. I tested twice at home, then went to the polyclinic the next day. The doctor referred me to KKH and advised me to wait for their call, but I was feeling quite unwell with bad body and shoulder aches, and I was also very anxious, so I decided to make an appointment with a private gynae instead. She confirmed that I was about 5 weeks plus pregnant. We did a scan and got to see our little bean, and even heard the heartbeat, which was such a special moment🥹 I’ll be reaching 7 weeks in a few days, and my next appointment is in a week’s time. Wishing you a smooth and healthy pregnancy too! ❤️

Congratulations on your pregnancy! It's wonderful that this is such a deliberate choice for you both, and honestly, many women have healthy pregnancies in their 40s so try not to stress too much about the age thing. For your first appointment, most OBGYNs like to see you around 8 to 12 weeks when they can confirm dates and do your initial screening, though some practices ask you to come in earlier if you prefer. Since it's been 14 years, the process will feel a bit different now - they'll likely do your booking blood tests, dating scan, and go through your medical history, so just call your OB's clinic to book and they'll guide you through what they need. The kids will probably come around once baby arrives, especially since it's a sibling situation rather than a completely new dynamic for them. All the best with your pregnancy!

Congratulations!! Week 6 or ish can start booking gynea appointments. meanwhile, you can eat folic acid!