I just lost my job. Company says I am not competent enough for the position. I have been trying but somehow I just can't do well. I am the main Breadwinner. 2 kids. My Wife stays at home. I do I tell her. I feel ashame.my wife already says I dont earn enough for the family and ask me to take on second income

I heard of father that lost their job but still act like they going out to work. They take their laptop and look for jobs in library. Is wrong that your wife tell you to look for a second job because as a father you should spend time with your kids too. Tell her about it, then stay at home take a break for a week or 2 while you look for job. Since she is not supportive to you as a bread winner, maybe u want to encourage your wife to go work too.