I just lost my job. Company says I am not competent enough for the position. I have been trying but somehow I just can't do well. I am the main Breadwinner. 2 kids. My Wife stays at home. I do I tell her. I feel ashame.my wife already says I dont earn enough for the family and ask me to take on second income

I'm sorry for your predicament. I hope you will recover from this and bounce back as fast as possible. Don't give up. If your heart is in the right place and you work hard, I'm sure things will get better. Take some time to find a job you know you'll be good at. Your wife is probably afraid and worried of the future just like you. People say things they don't mean when they are stressed. I pray things will get better for you. Hang in there.