I have just found out that my wife is pregnant with our third baby. But we are not financially ready (both earn) to have another child. I am extremely anxious. What should I do?

i can understand your concerns here and the most important thing to do is to speak about it with your wife. i get her emotional angle on this too. it can be hard to think about an abortion, and many women are not able to go ahead with it. on the other hand, though you too may not be very happy about it, i understand your practical views. discuss your earning and financial responsibilities with her and see what she has to say. sorry but it is something only you two can really decide, no matter what we all have to say.