Mama, with the throbbing, swelling, and pain radiating to your ear, especially since it's been getting worse, please go to a dentist or emergency care today, hindi na pwedeng maghintay Thursday pa , okay? This sounds like it could be an infection, at kailangan mo talaga ng professional check-up now, hindi mamaya. I know five months postpartum is the timeline your dentist mentioned, pero ang health mo is priority din, kaya mo ring mag-breastfeed safely kahit may dental procedure, so talk to your dentist about that too. A few of us mums have had to move up our dental work when the pain got really bad, at okay lang naman, so don't feel guilty. Just explain your situation, your pain level, the swelling, everything you told me, at let them decide kung extraction na or other options. You deserve relief, mama, especially ngayon na postpartum ka pa lang!