I agree with all the comments here, communication is the key. Inexplain sakin ng husband ko yan before pag lagi ako naiinis sakanya kasi wala siyang initiative and feeling ko insensitive siya. Hindi talaga same ang traits ng general women sa men. We girls initiate, we are sensitive, we are more caring by nature. Then when I communicated all my feelings sa kanya, ayun, naintindihan na niya mga needs ko and mga gusto kong mangyari, sa start nga lang medyo mahirap yung transitioning sa both sides niyo. Pero he asked me to tell him the things he should do and those things I want him and need him to do. (i'm working and he's handling their family business and nasanay siya na may helper, though we still have one, pero I'm trying to teach him also) he has more free time than me, so I ask him even the smallest things like, pag puno na yung trash tapos na sa labas and change na ng bagong plastic, pag nagising ligpit bed etc etc., now when I go home, di na ko nasstress sa kalat. And yun nga sabi niya, need lang naman pagusapan kasi hindi sila like us girls na tingin pa lag naiintindihan na natin, sila no, kailangan pa natin iexplain. I hope makapagcommunicate kayo well and be able to fix whatever issues you both have.