cane

i was canned and was physically abused due to me being “ naughty “ at such a young age where im still learning and testing my parent’s boundaries. This has affected me mentally as it continues till im older. I get more rebellious because i dislike my father hence, literally f him mindset & i replay the trauma he inflicted on me physically , verbally , mentally. Im diagnosed with MDD & when spoken with a psychologist, little did i know it was due to unnecessary canning when i was young. So , no canning is not a way to discipline. Theres other forms of discipline and how you do it. Im not talking abt doing gentle parenting cause i feel it does not work either as i have a son of my own which is 2 years old. I dont physically inflict any pain but i do raise my voice when needed & then reason with him why i scolded him & gave him a hug right after.