I am absolutely fed up of being the sole bread winner in the house. The kids are 7 and 9. I am frustrated that my Wife keeps saying she needs to not work and stay at home to take care of the kids. The kids go to school and we have a part time maid who comes in twice a week. How do I get her to go back to the workforce instead of sitting at home and spending all my hard earned Money?

The only way this can be resolved is for the both of you to have a chat with each other. Maybe you stay home instead and let her go out to the workforce? Try putting yourself in her shoes and think why would she be reluctant to rerurn to work. Could it be because there is something bothering her. Be patient with her and try to understand. It is only when we feel that the other party listens and understand that we will keep returning to share more with them.