Hi. I understand your frustrations. Fellow father of three.
From my perspective: if your kids are at school during the day and your wife is at home refusing to go to work, you need to ask her the question of exactly why she does not want to contribute financially to the family and why she feels she may not be ready. 7 & 9 year old kids at school with a maid is perfect reason to enter the workforce and help contribute towards financial freedom for the family.
Best of luck pal
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