Support system

I'm 37 years old too and currently 14 weeks pregnant. This is my 2nd pregnancy actually. I had my first last year but it wasn't successful. Prior to that, I haven't been with a man. I have been into same sex relationship since college days that my whole family never thought of me getting pregnant. My former partner has always been part of the family. Na tanggap na nilang ganon ako for many years. So imagine their disapproval when they first learned about it. In addition to that, the baby's daddy (who is now my husband) is 12 years younger than me. One of the reasons why they possibly thought it was just a one time mistake and a result of my impulsiveness. I have never been in good terms with my aunts and uncles since then. Like the hell I care. I'm good with that as long as my siblings and I are okay. (wala na kasi kming parents so kmi-kami na Lang). I am old enough nmn na to make decisions on my own. Their disapproval shouldn't be hindering my decisions. Saka, I have been living on my own naman din.

Nawala mama ko July 2021tapos nabuntis po ako october 2021. 4 months na ako nun nung namatay din papa ko last feb 2022 lang. Napakahirap po talaga ng walang guide ng mga magulang, maswerte padin ako kasi may mga kapatid ako na tanggap ang pagbubuntis ko, kahit na di kami kasal ng partner ko. (Kasal kasi partner ko sa unang asawa pero hiwalay, may 2 silang anak) Maswerte din ako sa partner ko kasi kinausap nya yung mga kapatid ko despite of our situation. Thankful padin ako sis kasi tinutulungan naman ako ng mga kapatid ko, tsaka support na din mga friends ang co workers.

grabe naman. siguro bread winner ka. asa sayo lahat kaya yung idea na mag kakapamilya ka at magiging masaya hindi nila bet. tanggalin mo muna sila sa sistema mo specially pregnant ka.and at your age sobrang blessed ka to conceive. alagaan mo ang sarili mo. need ka ng baby mo mag pakatatag. I am currently pregnant, 26years old. i decided to live with my bf kase mas panatag ako sa tabi nya hindi negative and I feel safe. naging selfish muna ako for a moment para sa safety ni baby. ako muna. nakakakonsensya pero pano ko sila tutulungan kung ako hindi maayos?

don’t stress yourself. maswerte po kayo dahil buntis kayo. kung wala kang ma feel na support sa family, sa partner and friends nyo nalang po ramdamin yung support na yun.