Abusive word

Question

How does it feel if your partner mention they  regret marrying you or  knowing you .But when both of you are okay, and you confront they will just say its out of anger?Will you leave or still stay?

Vô danh · Answer

You can either voice out or you can choose to endure till when you’re ready, reply with “let’s do it”. The thing is, if people know that you can’t leave them, they use this to control you. You can say and do many things out of anger, but not everyone will still be there to wait for you to regret your actions. I used to be in a manipulative rs too, because my partner know that I won’t leave him, so he often used leaving me to emotionally control me if things don’t go the way he wants. It took me 5 years to finally reply him “ok, as you wished”. Within 2 years of leaving him, he still tries to get me back but I’m long over this sh*t and couldn’t be bothered. I used 5 years to know my worth and to understand that it’s not worth it.