How do you discipline your child using positive parenting?

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Isa sa major things sa positive parenting is that wag mo utusan yung anak mo, tanungin mo siya. So give options. Example: Ligpitin mo na yung toys mo tapos maligo ka na (telling). Anong mas una mong gusto gawin maligo o magligpit ng toys? (asking) Also if you set a schedule with your kid, may control siya sa araw niya so mas gagawin niya yung dapat gawin. Like one time really sit down with your kid tapos draw kayo ng gagawin niya for the day - wake up, then ano next na gusto niya gawin (maligo o kumain) etc. Then post ninyo sa wall ng room or sa door, basta anywhere visible. That way pag gagawin na niya, ask mo siya "What are you supposed to do next?" So in turn hindi mo siya inutusan na maligo, check niya lang sched niya tapos "I know I have to take a bath!". Then, you check yung task pag natapos. Parang sense of accomplishment for the kid. In terms of discipline, connection before correction. Madalas kasi mas utos or puna yung nagagawa sa kids. For example, if yung kid mo is watching TV, ang sabihin lang eh “close na the TV”. So correct agad. We can try to talk about what they are watching, what they find interesting about it so you make a connection with them para when we correct hindi tayo masyadong kontrabida. If you want to know more (kasi madami pang iba aside sa namention ko above), there is a seminar about this on Sunday. July 31, 2016 | 8:30am to 5:30pm Hotel Celeste Php3,500.00/parent; Php6,300.00/couple Register at http://attend.positiveparentingph.com/

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