Hay, this sounds stressful mama, but high blood pressure during pregnancy ay dapat talaga i-monitor closely ng doctor mo kaya please don't skip your prenatal checkups. A few of my mum friends experienced something similar and ang doctors nila nag-adjust ng approach depending on how high it was, some needed meds, some needed strict rest at diet changes, so really kailangan ng personalized care para sa iyo at baby. For the weight gain, normal lang yan vary from mom to mom, pero ang important ay healthy pregnancy overall, hindi lang ang scale. Alam ko anxious ka, pero the best thing is to work closely with your OB para ma-manage ang BP safely, wag mag-worry mag-isa, they've guided thousands of moms through this. Sending you strength, pal!