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Oo mama, yan talaga ang struggle ng first time moms, lalo na pag may in-laws na excited, nahuhuli ka sa sariling routine mo with baby kasi napag-uusapan mo pa how to set boundaries! What your mom said is spot on though, babies do learn who soothes them best, and it sounds like your in-laws' handling style (picking her up when she cries instead of letting her settle) is making her fussier now kasi she's learned to expect that instead of calming with you. A few of us mums had to have the gentle talk with relatives, like, "Baby knows my touch best right now, and frequent handling actually overstimulates her," kasi hindi sila nakakaintindi na consistency lang ang need ng newborns para mag-adjust sa world. Set your boundary with love pero firm na, like "I'll hand her over after feeding/burping when she's settled," para baby knows her routine again and you're not stressed. Ang iyak niya now is her way of looking for what made her feel safe before, so trust yourself, you're doing the right thing by being the primary soother right now.

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