Mama, first thing, lepas curettage, kalau ada cramping dan bleeding sikit2, mmg boleh normal, tapi kita kena pastikan betul-betul dengan doktor ye. Jangan takut nak balik, they need to monitor kalau ada complications. Please call your clinic atau go to emergency kalau bleeding berat atau sakit teruk, okay?
Aku faham lah, memang emotional dan scary period ni. A few of my mum friends went through this jugak, dan semua cakap yang support dari family atau counselor membantu sangat untuk process kehilangan. Your body and heart both need time to heal, jangan push yourself. Doktor boleh refer you to support groups atau counseling kalau kena, sebab overthinking lepas trauma macam ni mmg normal tapi tak perlu hadapi sorang-sorang.
Hang in there, mama.