Ay mama, alam ko how scary at frustrating ito for you. Please get a second opinion from another OB right away, ito is really important at deserve mo ng doctor na makikinig at sumusuporta sa iyo, hindi lang nagbibigay ng scary words.
A few of my mum friends din nag-share ng similar stories, at honestly, ang best thing talaga is to talk to another trusted doctor para sure na lahat ng options ay clearly explained to you, walang pressure, walang judgment, just facts. You know your body best, at it's okay na mag-wait kung yan ang feeling mo, pero kailangan mo ng OB na supportive through this journey, whatever way it goes.
Sending you so much love. Kaya mo yan.