Dueing next month

Ftm here, dueing soon next month. Kinda nervous/scared.. On/off thinking about things like pain/contraction/tear/cut/hours of labour/halfway emergency c-sect/to use or not to use epidural 😣 FTM how are your experience? Did any FTM did not experience tearing at all or episiotomy being perform?

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dun think so much. i was induced for stillbirth and the dilation was really slow. abt 30+ hrs of labour. when i was really in pain then i ask for epidural but must wait till 4cm dilated. before that i had pain killer jab and laughing gas. once im ready to push, i just push as hard as i can cause i wan to quickly end it. my husband said i had tear but i dont feel any pain. after i discharge, some pain and sore but is manageable.

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