I really feel you on this, first time parenthood can feel so overwhelming and the confinement nanny search is genuinely stressful. My friend actually went through a agency called PEM Confinement Nanny Agency and said the nanny they got was experienced, patient, and really helped her wife recover well and settle into breastfeeding. I would suggest starting your search soon since the good nannies do get booked out fast, especially around the popular birth months, so 5 months still gives you a decent window but do not wait too long lah.