Sekadar perkongsian Untuk 1st time prgncy,premature bby

Sayang, my heart goes out to you, losing a baby is one of the hardest things a mum can go through, and your feelings are so valid. A few of the mums in my circle have had premature births and losses too, and many of them did go on to have healthy pregnancies after, though I won't lie, the anxiety is real and never fully goes away. For your next pregnancy, it's really important you work closely with a maternal-fetal medicine specialist or high-risk OB who knows about your fibroids and history, they can monitor you much more carefully, help manage stress (which is huge), and catch any warning signs early like you did with that back pain. Please also talk to a counsellor about processing this loss, because the grief and guilt (even when it's not your fault) can really weigh on you during the next pregnancy. You did everything right that day by going to the hospital, that shows how much you love your baby. Sending you so much strength, mama.