Could it be his wrong choice of words? perhaps he meant he cannot help (as in don't know how to help as well). while we are feeling frustrated over the baby who cannot latch well. Fathers might feel equally helpless. he might not want you to feel stressed over it as well. rmb fed is best. jiayou on your breastfeeding journey.
maybe he feels uncomfortable with the idea but nonetheless, we have a choice as a mother. There are a few positions to try such as cradle and football hold..I used them both depending on situations. Jiayou!
your husband needs to get on board because it’s his kid and it’s his business. be more supportive at least. can practice one don’t worry. my LO could only latch well after third month
My ger was very impatient and couldnt really latch. I couldnt find a good position for her and soon i got tired as well. I feel ur hb feels helpless and theres nth he could do.