Why is this happening

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So devastated after my checkup today. 😭My doctor is giving me hints that I may be having a blighted ovum. Referred to another obgyn for 2nd opinion. Any mums out there experienced this? Never, even in my nightmare have I thought that this would happen to me. I dont know if Ill ever be ready to go to the other doctor this Wednesday. 😭😭😭

Amihan Santos · Answer

Nak, Im so sorry, this is heartbreaking, and its totally okay to feel devastated right now. Please do go to your second opinion on Wednesday though, because your OB needs to confirm this with you, and you deserve clarity and support through whatever comes next.A few of us moms have been through pregnancy losses, and honestly, having that second opinion really helped them feel less alone and more sure about their next steps. Youre not alone in this, even though it feels so lonely right now.Lean on your partner, your family, or a trusted friend this week, you dont have to carry this by yourself. Your doctor is there to help you through, okay?