Belum berjaya wean off

Currently tengah mengandung 8 weeks and anak first umur 2 years. Saya terpaksa wean off ngam ngam 2 years sebab dah pregnant. Susahnya!!! Masih belum berjaya lagi. Siang hari dia ok lagi lah. Malam-malam asyik terjaga mencari susu badan. Kalau saya tak bagi memang dia tantrum yang sangat dahsyat. Stressnya. Saya bukan sahaja takut membahayakan kandungan, tapi badan saya memang tak mampu mengandung dan menyusu pada masa sama. Saya rasa letih sangat. Plus, I'm a working mom. Saya lenyek asam jawa ok lah dia takut nak menyusu. Tapi siang hari je berjaya, dia kata "eeeee". Malam dia dah tak nampak asam jawa tu dia lenjan hisap jugak walaupun masih ada asam jawa. Saya dah mati akal nak buat macam mana. Makan minum semua beres memang dia makan banyak, minum susu kotak pun banyak jugak. Saya risau kalau saya teruskan menyusu, akan affect kandungan saya. Walaupun setakat ni takde la bleeding ke apa cuma badan saya jadi sakit sangat, faham-faham la budak umur 2 tahun menyusu macam mana, buas betul.

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Oh dear, you are doing so well already sebab siang hari dah berjaya, so please don't be too hard on yourself, malam memang the hardest part for toddlers this age because nursing is so tied to their sleep comfort, bukan sekadar lapar. Maybe you could try having your husband or someone else do the bedtime routine for a while so baby doesn't associate that time with you being there, sometimes a little distance at night helps break the habit more gently than anything else. Since your body is feeling so exhausted and sakit, and you are only 8 weeks pregnant, I think it would really be worth sharing all of this with your doctor or gynae so they can advise you properly on whether it is safe to continue even partially, and also give you some peace of mind. You are carrying so much right now as a working mom and an ibu mengandung, please be gentle with yourself, you are truly doing your best.

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