Urus ank lasak

Haih akak, memang susah betul masa pregnant sambil anak lasak, I totally get it, pastu suami half-hearted help lagi rasa lebih stress je kan. Honestly with my first anak lasak time pregnant, I just gave up on perfection, toys everywhere, cereal for dinner some nights, and I make peace dengan tu sebab my energy and baby in my belly adalah priority, bukan rumah bersih. Try to sit suami down (serious mode, bukan nag mode) and say exactly what tasks you need help dengan, like "you handle bedtime routine and dishes after dinner", vague "tolong" doesn't work with most husbands, they need specific tasks or they blur. Kalau budget ada, even 2-3 jam weekends dengan sitter/helper untuk you recharge makes a HUGE difference, or ask parents/in-laws untuk jaga anak few hours so you boleh rest. You're growing another human, so cut yourself some serious slack now, the lasak phase will pass, but your health during pregnancy won't repeat, so protect that first okay.