Ohhh I understand the feeling! A few of us tried waiting and it's agony kan, but UPT paling reliable bila at least a few days lewat period, kang negative false result buat hati lagi sedih. Gusi bengkak and nausea are legit early signs tho, so ada harapan! I won't lie, after a miscarriage the anxiety is real, but try to breathe, esok dah boleh test pun, and once you get that positive confirmation, then boleh follow up with doctor for proper dating scan and all the monitoring you need to feel secure Fingers crossed for you! Keep me posted eh, rooting for you