Hey, totally normal lah! Banyak mums I know, especially first time pregnant, their bumps at 13 weeks still flat or very kecil, some people don't really show until 16-18 minggu or even later. Depends on body type, how your uterus is positioned (some tilt forward, some backward), and whether it's your first. Pasal first pregnancy, your belly muscles haven't stretched before, so they hold the bump in tighter. Regarding the scan, honestly, jangan takut! The scan is actually the best way to put your mind at ease and confirm everything is progressing well. A few pregnant friends I know had similar worries, and their scans showed baby was perfectly fine, just naturally on the smaller side or the bump was just not showing yet. The doctor can also date your pregnancy properly during the scan, which helps if there's any confusion about when you conceived. Go ahead and book it, yeah? It's way better than spending the whole pregnancy anxious. But of course, if you have any concerns, definitely chat with your own doctor or O&G, they know your history best and can give you proper reassurance. You'll feel so much better after!
Totally normal