My baby is turning 2 this October and I really don't think it's necessary to throw a huge birthday party. I'm thinking of a small gathering. Can you share your thoughts and experiences on this?

It's usually the first birthday that's "bongga" but the 2nd can just be for close friends and family! My sister had the usual big party for her child's first birthday - catering, ballroom, event styling, etc. But the second one was just a swimming party at home :)