Wa'alaikumassalam! Ai, don't worry lah, lendir campur darah tanpa kontraksi at 36 weeks is actually quite common, even though it feels scary! A few of us mums experienced the same thing, and some took another 1-2 weeks before anything happened, while others lahir a few days later like your second child. The fact that your PAC checked and you're less than 1cm bukaan is a good sign, means your body's not quite ready yet, even if the bloody show came early. With your third pregnancy, sometimes the signs are different from the first two, so jangan compare too much! That said, keep monitoring, if you get proper contractions or anything changes, definitely reach out to your doctor or PAC again. They know your case best, so it's worth a quick call just to put your mind at ease.
Lepas dr check jalan, masih lagi keluar lendir dan darah tak sis? Ada rasa contraction tak? Biasa 3,4 hari juga baru contraction dtg dan makin kerap. Sis monitor dulu, ikut gerak hati sis. Kalau ada dan makin kerap sis pergi hospital.
Afiqah Zakaria