Pregnant lagi

Ahhh mama, I can feel the stress in your message! Honestly, a few of my mum friends have been in this exact situation, and they found it helps to approach the convo with your hubby from a place of honesty rather than defensiveness, just lay out what happened, maybe frame it as "we need to plan together for this" rather than waiting for him to be upset. The good news is once the shock wears off, most guys come around because, well, it's happening whether anyone's ready or not! I'd suggest picking a calm moment (not in front of family or when tensions are high) and maybe have a rough plan ready, like how you'll manage two under two, what help you need, so it feels less like chaos and more like "okay, we got this." Wishing you strength for that conversation, mama.