Sabar ya.. rasa saya tu normal je, semua ibu akan terasa begini Anak sulung memang akan merajuk and acting out sikit, bukan dia jahat, tapi dia tiba-tiba rasa macam kami tak sayang dia dah sebab ada "orang baru" kan. Paling important sekarang, even if kuning baby dah settle down sikit, try to carve out small pockets of time just with kakak, tak perlu besar-besaran, jalan-jalan makan aiskrim pun dah enough for her to feel special again.
I know you're stretched thin with jaundice baby and semuanya, but jangan hard on yourself. My neighbour pun pernah rasa guilty sangat sama anak eldest, and she told me she started doing 15 minutes before bedtime, just sit, chat, listen to kakak cerita hari dia, and it made such a difference. Anak sulung needs to know she still penting to you, even with the new baby around.
This phase will pass, I promise. Tapi memang kena be intentional sikit je about making time for her. Hang in there, you're doing your best with two at once
(Worth also checking with your paediatrician on the jaundice timeline too, just so you can plan better!)
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