Ahhh I can understand how frustrating this must be lah, especially after waiting so long, a few of my mum friends also took a while to conceive after stopping the pill, so you're definitely not alone in this. Your doctor is right that it can take months for the body to regulate itself after hormonal contraception, tapi if you've been trying for a good stretch now without success, maybe it's worth asking your doc for some basic fertility checks (hormone levels, partner's count, etc.) just to rule out anything else lah. Sending baby dust your way!