Sayang, your feelings are completely valid, jangan la rasa macam you're being oversensitive or "mengada". A few of us actually went through similar things with our own mums, and honestly, it hurts different when it's your own mum yang tak check in on you macam that, especially after you've been through a miscarriage before. That experience probably made you more cautious now, and that's understandable.
Here's the thing though, when you're pregnant, your body and hormones are working overtime, so even small things terasa lebih heavy emotionally. It's not weakness; it's actually your nervous system being extra protective of you and baby. So rasa sedih is 100% normal, bukan because you're weak or demanding.
One of my mum friends actually had to sit her mak down and just explain softly how she was feeling during her pregnancy, sometimes parents tak realise, especially if mereka punya their own way of showing care. But also remember, your support system doesn't have to come only from your mum; sometimes it's your husband, a close friend, sister, or even mum friends yang dapat you better right now.
Please also chat with your doctor or midwife about how you're feeling emotionally, they can support you properly and make sure you're doing okay during this pregnancy. Take care of yourself, mummy.
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