Aiyooo I totally understand the worry! Lepas anak pertama lahir awal, memang kena adjust expectation untuk yang ketiga ni kan, especially bila teman² dah deliver dulu. The thing is, 39 weeks is still within normal range so baby boleh ambil masa je, ada some babies yang suka "overstay" especially if anak ketiga (they're more comfortable!), but the prodromal cramps you're having is a good sign things are happening, just tidak ada sense of urgency lagi. I'd really suggest you check with your doctor next appointment to make sure baby and placenta okay je, and maybe discuss signs to watch for kalau ada any concerns, they can give you peace of mind better than comparing dengan other mums' timing