Eh sabar ya, hemorrhoids during pregnancy ni memang masalah biasa tapi memang sakit gila kan Honestly the best thing is to check with your doctor or midwife sebab 20 weeks itu still okay untuk treatment options yang aman, especially kalau dah 3 hari and tak settle, doktor boleh tengok and advise properly, maybe suggest stool softener or cream yang safe for pregnancy. Sementara tu, minum banyak air, jangan tunggu sampai terdesak nak pergi toilet (cramping akan buat worse), and try warm baths (15-20 minit) a few times a day, memang membantu rasa sakit, at least temporary relief la. Moga cepat okay!