Birthclub: August 2022

#plsRespectmyPost just want to rant.. I am at a point where I feel so lost with my position in life. Just when I thought I was handling work well, in reality, I’m not. Everything keeps getting messier and messier. At the same time, my toddler is going through changes and needs patience and guidance gradually, but I find myself feeling stressed and impatient with her. I know it’s not good, and I feel guilty about it. But if I stop working, we’ll face financial problems. So I’m trying my best to be a mom, while also trying my best to be an employee who doesn’t cause trouble for others. Yet in the end, it feels like I’m not good at either.

Hi, anyone try this nanny part time service recently? If yes can share your experience? Do they work on night shift?

Hi mommies, im with a private gynae and have had a csection in aug 2022, currently looking to do a vbac for my second due in May 2025. The reason i had to csection previously was because my labor fail to progress beyond 4cm. Now my private gynae insist i do a csection for my second however i do want to try for a vbac as i have a toddler to care for and wish for a fast recovery time.. Any recommended dr in kkh for vbac? And any vbac mommies here? #vbac

Hello mga mommy sino dito yung pang 4 cs na

My toddler is now going 3 years old. But current my marriage is having issue but we did not acknowledge it. Past 3 years I feel lonely and ignored by my husband. Only recently, we started to try just for the seek of having another baby. In law also giving us pressure to have another kid so my son won’t be lonely. We went through IVF to conceive my son. It was a very difficult journey that create unhappiness for us due to the stress we went through for infertility. We didn’t had much less than 1 sex a month some months we cannot be bothered to try. But last month we did once and I found out I got pregnant in April. Now is about 6 weeks and my husband don’t seem to be happy. He is traumatized about how unhappy after we had our son. With a lot of unhappy reasons as much as I want to keep this baby. I foresee we won’t be happy and might break the marriage and I think I should just abort the baby. I felt irresponsible as a parent as we are not loving parents. I know I will regret and guilty for the rest of my life but at least I don’t break my marriage and maintain a friendship with my husband for the seek of my son. Does anyone encounter the same problem and choose abortion?

Hi Mummies, wondering if it if possible for full time working parents to manage new born and a 3 yrs old toddler without helpers? Have anyone been through this and able to share your experience on how to manage daily especially at night time?

Worried and overwhelmed mummy here.

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38wks pregnant w 2 yrs old toddler. Im struggling with daily sciatica pain on my right lower limp since my third trimester begin. I couldnt care for my toddler well when she needs me. I cant move at all. On and off bed has been a struggle. Tears hasnt been foreign for my eyes everyday. This 2nd pregnancy hasnt been easy for me physically, mentally and emotionally. Going to the dr, its always normal is their answer. ,😭😭😭

Hi mummies, I just sold a ride on toy that my elder already outgrown and it's taking space in the house. I have a younger baby who is 21 months old. I decided to sell the toy as I checked with my elder and he doesn't want it. I had wanted to keep for my baby but my baby development is way slower that my elder. At 21 months old she still doesn't know how to ride on and play other toys (mostly throwing toys and biting them). I couldn't stand that I'm keeping toys (those bulky baby toys) waiting for my baby to know how to play them but don't know when she will know. Also I felt this ride on is more for boy. However now I regretted as my baby girl seems to like the ride on based on my 6th sense as when the ride on is still at home, she sometimes showed interest in it but mostly it's just a white elephant. In short, I sold the toy out of frustration. I know I can't get it back as it will be awkward to contact the buyer. If I buy back the same ride on from other sellers in carousell, the feeling is not the same too as that's not the ride on that my elder grew up in. How do I comfort myself for this reckless "mistake" I made? Or am I thinking just too much? Thanks