Would you work long hours and weekend to earn more/secure ur job or spend more time with your children but earn lesser? Would that make you a lesser dad?

Spend more time with child and adjust accordingly as i got to choose my own working time and hours . But as for guy usually they work a longer hour in order to support the family but of course during weekends like sunday and public holidays is a big NONO . but not to worries you are not bad , as long as you make an effort to spend some time with your kid they will definitely understand. Everybody does not have enough time and money is always not enough to earn in such society.