Would you work long hours and weekend to earn more/secure ur job or spend more time with your children but earn lesser? Would that make you a lesser dad?

Hi there, growing up, my father worked all time, traveled alot and pretty much missed out on lots of my childhood milestones. In fact, this continued till I was in university and only stopped when he retired. Not once did my siblings and I think any lesser of my father. In fact, my mom was a working mom all the way and we became primary school latch-key kids after my grandma passed. Again, not once did we blame our parents or resent them for working to secure our future. Don't be too hard on yourself. If you are working long hours or even if you're not, so long as you are sincere about everything, your kids will grow up appreciating all your efforts.